You are invited to join the Mission:  Joy of the Family!

Every human person is made for love.  All of us are called to a deep relationship with God and with others.  Family is the privileged place intended by God to be the school of love where we learn how to love God and others.  While no family is perfect, “family is the original cell of social life” (Catechism of the Catholic Church # 2207).  Whether we are single, married, ordained or consecrated, we all come from a family- our domestic church- and are invited to the family of families – the Catholic Church.

The Joy of the Family mission is a multi-year series of events and initiatives designed to inspire and assist us to more joyfully and fruitfully live out our vocations in our domestic church and/or in the Catholic Church. Check back here often for news and tips.

Initial events featured internationally known speaker and founder of joytob.org, Damon Owens, who addressed our true identity in Christ and our call to relationship with God and each other.  Click here for some highlights:

Pleasure, Happiness or Joy

The Joy to be: Identity in Christ

 

The Catechism of the Catholic Church reminds us that the Christian family is a community of faith, hope and charity (#2204) with an evangelizing and missionary task (#2205).  Parents have the primary responsibility and privilege for evangelizing their children, initiating them into the mysteries of the faith (#2225) and “the mission of teaching their children to pray and to discover their vocation as children of God” (#2226).  To assist parents in fulfilling this challenging call from God, here are some ways to foster vocations:

For a start, just follow the ABC’s . . .

The ABCs of Fostering Vocations
(print pdf)

A: Answer your children’s questions about priesthood or religious life; never discourage them or ridicule them if they bring it up.
Ask your child to identify a talent which he or she has, and imagine together what work or ministry God might want someone to do with that type of talent. Also talk about what good things can be done with the talent right now. For instance, singing talent could be used to sing a baby brother or sister to sleep. Talent at soccer could be used to help someone on the team
who needs extra practice.

B: Bring your family to the next ordination Mass or prayer vigil for religious.

C: Challenge teens and young adults to consider a church-related vocation. Tell them about the gifts in ministry you see in them. Encourage them to participate in at least one special vocation event (ordination, vocation retreat, Focus 11, etc.). Cultivate an attitude of service by responding as a family to the needs of others. Seek out those in need and find ways
to care for them.

D: Discuss your own vocation to family life, explaining that God calls some people to priesthood or religious life, some to marriage, and some to life as single laypeople. You can talk about vocations firsthand!

E: Encourage your children to be involved in the liturgical life of the parish as servers, lectors, musicians, etc. (and see to it that they get there on time).
Explore the feelings you might experience should one of your children choose to give his or her life to church ministry and discuss with your spouse your feelings and reactions if one of your children decided to become a priest or nun.

F: Find opportunities to affirm the gifts and talents of your children, and help them relate their gifts to various career and life choices (including priesthood and religious life).

G: Guide your junior high child to pray that he or she might discover and use the gifts God has given.

H: Have a priest come and bless your home. Have your younger children make a cross to hang in each bedroom in your home.

I: Include the diocesan vocation prayer in your personal and family prayer, especially on Wednesdays. Invite a priest, brother, or sister to dinner or to an outing with your family.

J: Join together in prayer as a family; include a short vocations prayer when you pray before meals (especially on Wednesday).

K: Keep an eye open for TV shows and movies that present gospel-centered role models. Watch them with your children and engage in a discussion.

L: Let your children see their baptism pictures. Have the children make and send a card or note to the priest who baptized them promising him they will pray for them.
Let your children notice an attitude of openness to God’s will in you.

M: Make time for teenagers in your life: your children and their friends, nieces and nephews, babysitters, etc.

N: Name the gifts of each family member on their birthday. Express gratitude for these gifts.

O: On the anniversary date of your child’s baptism, talk about the life of the saint for whom the child
is named (or the saint’s day it is). There is plenty of information about the background of saints on the Internet. The saints are people from all walks of life who tried to make a positive difference in the world—a goal as real today as it was for the saints.

P: Pray for the seminarians of your diocese by name; you may want to “spiritually adopt” one of them.

Q: Quiz your children and discuss with them stories of calls in Scripture (e.g., Mary’s response to God in Luke 1:26-39, Jesus calling the Apostles in Mt 4:18-22, etc.).

R: Remember in prayer by name those who minister to your family and include in your family prayers petitions for those called to priesthood and consecrated life.

S: Set aside a “family time” each week for your children to talk about what is happening in their lives. Let them share about their day. 
Share the story of your own vocational choice with your children. Celebrate the occasion of your wedding anniversary as you share the story of your vocation to married life.
Support and participate in school or parish vocation activities.

T: Talk about your family’s ethnic or cultural heritage at supper, while driving in the car, or at some other time when family members are all together. Pass along memories of cultural aspects of holiday and other celebrations that you remember.
Talk positively and enthusiastically about the priests, sisters, brothers, and deacons in your parish and share with your children stories of priests or sisters who have inspired you and how (e.g., the priest at your wedding or who baptized your children, priests or religious from school, etc.).
Tell your children why you chose your particular profession. Who helped you form your decision?

U: Use books and videos to familiarize your children with saints who are priests or vowed religious. Use these lives of the saints as a springboard for discussion on these lifestyles.
Utilize opportunities to share about your vocation as parents: what you value, how you came to that decision, and the importance of faith in your life.

V: Visit churches and shrines while on vacation and offer prayers together as a family.

W: Witness to the beauty of your own vocation by telling stories about how you fell in love. Let your children see the love and care that you, as parents, have for each other.

XYZ: The end of the alphabet, but certainly not the end of new ways or ideas to foster vocations at home!


This material was adapted from “ABCs of Fostering Vocations” which was originally published on www.USCCB.org.
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